{"id":5663,"date":"2015-05-02T13:16:14","date_gmt":"2015-05-02T12:16:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/verityholloway.com\/?p=5663"},"modified":"2015-05-02T13:16:14","modified_gmt":"2015-05-02T12:16:14","slug":"hospitalglam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/?p=5663","title":{"rendered":"#HospitalGlam"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hello again. Remember me?<\/p>\n<p>I haven&#8217;t blogged properly for a while, partly because I&#8217;m wrapped up in\u00a0<em>The Mighty Healer<\/em>, and partly because the boyfriend and I have both been varying shades of ill, ill, ill, for several months. Nothing sucks up time like hospital visits and bedrest.<\/p>\n<p>Here in the UK, the general election is about to topple onto our heads.\u00a0That means blanket coverage\u00a0of men in bad suits shouting at each other about the NHS, not because they care that it&#8217;s circling the drain, but because winning debates is more fun than losing them. After a while, all the chatter ceases to sound like real life and enters Pink Floyd video territory, particularly when Cameron gets a bit sweaty and you sit there hoping his rubber mask will slither\u00a0off to reveal the circuitry within.<\/p>\n<p>So I want to share something fun.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/karolynprg\" target=\"_blank\">Karolyn Gehrig<\/a> is a queer disabled artist from Los Angeles. Like me, she has a connective tissue disorder and spends a lot of time traipsing in and out of hospital. To pick herself up, Karolyn started taking selfies in a medical setting, tagging them <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/HospitalGlam?src=hash\" target=\"_blank\">#HospitalGlam<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re gorgeous.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/hospitalglam.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-5664\" src=\"http:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/hospitalglam.jpg\" alt=\"hospitalglam\" width=\"386\" height=\"292\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-5668 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/hospitalglam4.jpg\" alt=\"hospitalglam4\" width=\"397\" height=\"339\" srcset=\"https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/hospitalglam4-300x255.jpg 300w, https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/hospitalglam4-352x300.jpg 352w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 397px) 100vw, 397px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cI started posting #hospitalglam because it was frustrating to me that every time I got sicker I\u2019d disappear from my commitments and then feel shy about explaining where I\u2019d been when I knew there was absolutely nothing wrong with pursuing treatment for my disabling chronic illnesses.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The idea struck a chord. With the success of the <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/HospitalGlam?src=hash\" target=\"_blank\">#HospitalGlam<\/a> hashtag on Twitter, Karolyn set up a <a href=\"http:\/\/hospitalglam.tumblr.com\" target=\"_blank\">Tumblr<\/a>\u00a0for fellow\u00a0patients to submit their own selfies, giving them something to do in those doldrum waiting rooms, and winning back a bit of self-esteem at the same time. Any gender, any illness, artistic or silly, made-up or fed up.<\/p>\n\n\t\t<style type=\"text\/css\">\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 {\n\t\t\t\tmargin: auto;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-item {\n\t\t\t\tfloat: left;\n\t\t\t\tmargin-top: 10px;\n\t\t\t\ttext-align: center;\n\t\t\t\twidth: 33%;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 img {\n\t\t\t\tborder: 2px solid #cfcfcf;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-caption {\n\t\t\t\tmargin-left: 0;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t\/* see gallery_shortcode() in wp-includes\/media.php *\/\n\t\t<\/style>\n\t\t<div id='gallery-1' class='gallery galleryid-5663 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/?attachment_id=5672'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/hg2-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-5672\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-5672'>\n\t\t\t\toneredbuttonhole @Tumblr\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/?attachment_id=5673'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/hg3-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-5673\" srcset=\"https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/hg3-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/hg3-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/hg3.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-5673'>\n\t\t\t\tmutantrobot @Tumblr\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/?attachment_id=5674'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/hg4-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-5674\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-5674'>\n\t\t\t\tStormyEnt @Twitter\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl><br style=\"clear: both\" \/><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/?attachment_id=5675'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/hg5-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-5675\" srcset=\"https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/hg5-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/hg5-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/hg5.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-5675'>\n\t\t\t\tcripplewife @ Tumblr\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/?attachment_id=5669'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/hospitalglam5-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-5669\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-5669'>\n\t\t\t\tMe, modelling the Alien face hugger\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/?attachment_id=5677'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/hg6-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-5677\" srcset=\"https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/hg6-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/hg6-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/hg6.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-5677'>\n\t\t\t\tannieelainey @Tumblr\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl><br style=\"clear: both\" \/>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p>One nice effect of #HospitalGlam is finding like-minded souls.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright  wp-image-5666\" src=\"http:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/hospitalglam3.jpg\" alt=\"hospitalglam3\" width=\"383\" height=\"383\" srcset=\"https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/hospitalglam3.jpg 500w, https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/hospitalglam3-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/hospitalglam3-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 383px) 100vw, 383px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s Heather of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mortuaryreport.com\/post\/116851534807\/on-hospitalglam-my-panties-and-personal\" target=\"_blank\">Mortuary Report<\/a>. She&#8217;s a funeral director and all-round fascinating human. You should read her blog\u00a0on <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mortuaryreport.com\/post\/116851534807\/on-hospitalglam-my-panties-and-personal\" target=\"_blank\">reclaiming\u00a0sexiness and personal empowerment\u00a0whilst chronically ill<\/a>, but here&#8217;s a chunk that stuck out for me:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;There are few places where one feels less empowered and beautiful than in a medical setting, and it\u2019s not just because of that awful beige color the walls in doctor\u2019s offices are always painted. Most humans are fortunate to only associate doctors with tedious time spent in waiting rooms and an annual check up. For those of us who are chronically ill, however, the experience of spending as much time as we do in medical settings becomes a spin-cycle of misery, depression, and \u2013 often \u2013 questioning our own sanity. [&#8230;] Being disabled in an able-bodied society quickly became a source of shame and frustration.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Being chronically ill isn&#8217;t as glamorous as the brochure made it out to be. The invisibility Karolyn talked about &#8211; self-inflicted or otherwise &#8211; has an accumulative effect on the psyche. That&#8217;s on top of the media&#8217;s\u00a0relentless\u00a0commodification of the body, where presentability is bound up in youth, health, and unattainable conventional beauty.\u00a0That&#8217;s why it&#8217;s so\u00a0important to see images of people with chronic illnesses and disabilities where a) they&#8217;re in control, and b) pity porn, or the godawful &#8216;inspiration&#8217;, doesn&#8217;t come into it.<\/p>\n<p>Model Melanie Gaydos will be familiar from Rammstein and Die Antwoord videos. Here, she talks about growing up with Ectodermal Dysplasia and bringing her individuality to the modelling world.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/sdvaTzWvbPA\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;When I go on a photo shoot, if there&#8217;s other industry models there, they normally don&#8217;t really know what to make of me. And they&#8217;re usually like, &#8216;What the fuck is this?&#8217; [&#8230;] I love modelling. A time for me to be completely open. I guess it&#8217;s kind of like a therapeutic process for me.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>#HospitalGlam is a weapon for those of us with chronic illnesses. With it, we reassert our individuality, regain our playfulness, and have a &#8216;frivolous&#8217; place to escape to when all else might seem out of control. It is therapeutic. And it&#8217;s fun. And all the while people ask <em>what the fuck<\/em>, we know it&#8217;s needed.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/xraygirl.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-5670\" src=\"http:\/\/verityholloway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/xraygirl.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"334\" height=\"443\" \/><\/a>Our Lady of the Cathode Rays. Thine be the free hospital mochas.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">See you on the hashtag.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hello again. Remember me? I haven&#8217;t blogged properly for a while, partly because I&#8217;m wrapped up in\u00a0The Mighty Healer, and partly because the boyfriend and I have both been varying shades of ill, ill, ill, for several months. Nothing sucks &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/?p=5663\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[19,15],"class_list":["post-5663","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-health","tag-marfans"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5663","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5663"}],"version-history":[{"count":17,"href":"https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5663\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5692,"href":"https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5663\/revisions\/5692"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5663"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5663"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/verityholloway.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5663"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}